One of the hardest things about dating as a man is not being a creep. It’s a label no one wants, and one that carries more weight than the word might suggest. And for most guys, this isn’t hard — abiding by the generally agreed upon rules of societal conduct is usually enough. But sometimes, even when we’re trying to do the right thing, we engage in behavior that some women find threatening and/or creepy. In a recent AskReddit thread, women provided some helpful examples of how some guys earn the creeper label — even if they didn’t mean to.